We caught up with this mother and daughter pair from the Karate scene and quizzed both of them on how they cope with the stresses of Vanessa striving to excel in the local Karate scene.
Photos of Vanessa in action :
Read our interview below :
Questions for Desiree Tan (Mother)
1) When did you find out that Vanessa is talented in Karate?
I wanted to expose Vanessa to a range of activities from 3 – 6 yrs (prior to formal Primary education) so she can explore where her interests lie. She can then find her way to destress, build up her confidence and find a suitable CCA that she enjoys doing. As any mum with girls, I started her with art, ballet, music. She gave a firm no to music and was crying each time when she had to wear her tulle for ballet.
2) Why Karate and not Ballet?
We were posted to Sri Lanka and one day, at 3.5yrs, we were at the Social Club and she passed by a Karate class in action. Her eyes gleamed and she was really excited and she keep saying this is how she wants to spend her time. We went in to enquire but the sensei said she was way too young and they only take in kids at 5 yrs – she was so upset and she looked like she was going to burst into tears. So, the sensei said since we were there, Vanessa can try out the lesson and if she can take the instructions and remember the movements, she can stay on. And she did.. so every 6 mths, she passed her grading and by 6 yrs when we returned to Singapore, she had passed 4 rounds and was an orange belt. (The colour belt system is different from Singapore)
3) What was the motivation for sending her to Karate lessons at such a young age?
It was an activity she obviously enjoyes and I have learnt to accept I do not have a princess in the making but more of a mulan version.
4) How did you think Karate has helped her mentally, physically and emotionally?
After 6 years of Karate training, I can vouch that besides training the physical strength, more importantly, it has taught Vanessa focus and discipline. Due to the heavy training commitments prior to competitions, Vanessa does not watch much TV or play – her leisure time is spent mostly in Karate. Vanessa has learnt through her competitions that if she lose – she can always standup and train again and the results will be different the next round. If she win – she cannot be proud cause if she lose her focus, she can lose in the next demonstration. Karate has given Vanessa this exposure and she has learnt to pick herself up when things do not go her way and she has also learn to be humble when she wins. I think practising Karate also helps Vanessa to destress as I have often seen her doing bits of her Kata or mediate while studying for her exam :). There are also many role models of big sisters like Peiyi, Peiyu etc who excel both in Karate and studies so through them, Vanessa understood the importance of prioritising and focusing on the tasks on hand. She is more mature than kids of her age.
5) How often does Vanessa trains and what is a normal day like for her?
Vanessa trains under sensei Richard on Wed 7:30pm to 9:00pm and on Sunday 9:30am – 11:00am weekly. There are competitions every quarter and a month before the competition, Vanessa also trains on Friday 8pm – 10pm weekly. Vanessa is at school from average 7:00am – 1:30pm daily, she is also in Golf CCA so she comes back at 6pm on Tuesday. She also has enrichment classes on Wed, Fri and Sat. She is also a school prefect so she has duties during recess and school hours. So, she spends her time – study, homework, golf, karate and sleep. I make sure she has at least 8 hours of sleep each day. She loves Karate so much that there was once, she woke up at 4:30am to study Chinese spelling so she can go for her Wed training.
6) What are her achievements in Karate so far?
2009:
· 18th Kobe Osaka International World Cup & Training Camp Girls Individual Kata 8-10 yrs – Gold
· 18th Kobe Osaka International World Cup & Training Camp Girls Individual Kumite 8-10 yrs – Silver
· 3rd Asian KOI Open Karate Championship Individual Kata 8-9 yrs – Gold
· 3rd Asian KOI Open Karate Championship Individual Kumite 8-9 yrs – Silver
· National Inter-School Karate-Do Championship Girl Individual Kumite P3 & 4 – Gold
· National Inter-School Karate-Do Championship Girl Individual Kata P3 & 4 – Silver
· Pesta Sukan Karate-Do Championships Girls Individual Kumite 8-10 yrs – Gold
· Pesta Sukan Karate-Do Championships Girls Individual Kata 8-10 yrs – Silver
· 7th Shinwa-Kai Karate-Do Invitational Championships 2009 Girls Individual Kata 8-9 yrs – Gold
· 7th Shinwa-Kai Karate-Do Invitational Championships 2009 Girls Individual Kumite 8-9 yrs – Gold
2008:
· 2nd Asian Koi Karate Championship Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, Girls Individual Kumite 6 -7 yrs – Gold
· 2nd Asian Koi Karate Championship Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, Girls Individual Kata 6-7 yrs – Silver
· 9th Malaysian Schools Open Karate Championship, Girls Individual Kata 6-7 yrs – Gold
· 9th Malaysian Schools Open Karate Championship, Girls Individual Kumite 6-7 yrs – Bronze
· 6th Shinwa-Kai Karate Open Invitation Championship, Girls Kumite 6-7 yrs – Silver
· 6th Shinwa-Kai Karate Open Invitation Championship, Girls Kata below 10 yrs – Bronze
2007:
· 1st Asian Koi Regional Karate Championship Sabah, Malaysia, Girls Individual Kata 6-7 yrs – Gold
· 1st Asian Koi Regional Karate Championship Sabah, Malaysia, Girls Individual Kumite 6-7 yrs – Silver
· Shinwa-Kai Karate Do Championship Girls Individual Kata 6 yrs below – Silver
7) Is it tough to juggle school and competitive Karate at the same time? How does she cope with it at such a young age?
I don’t think its easy but Vanessa wants it and she gives up TV time or play time to practise Karate and cope with school work. She is in the best class in school so school also sets a high standard for these students – there is more homework, tests and spelling. I draw up a timetable with timelines so Vanessa knows where she is at in terms of homework and revision. Her study effort is like a production line with mini deadlines that she needs to complete – its therefore much easier to follow through when she is on her toes and on the ball to know what to do. By nature, she is competitive so she will grit through when she understands what she needs to do so there are days when she has school followed by enrichment classes and then she has Karate class till 10pm – she is still very alert and focus at 10pm although meals are like a quick bite and she had minimum rest in between the day. I think her interest in Karate and her competitive nature makes her pull through with the heavy demands.
8) What is next for Vanessa? Any upcoming competitions?
Vanessa will attend any competitions that will not clash with her school exams and if the competition venue is not too far or expensive to make the commitment. Her school is very supportive so last year, when Vanessa took 10 days off to attend the World Cup Competition and Training in Malaysia, her school allowed her time off and her teachers gave her extra time and coaching to catch up with the missed school work. This year, I think there will be about 3 competitions only – the Milo Cup, the Asia Cup and the interschool competition. Usually, I leave the competition training in the good hands of her coach who will bring and train her for the events. We would give the World Cup a miss this year as the cost and time of going to Greece may not make it possible for her to participate.
9) What are your goals for Vanessa in Karate this year?
I have no goals for Vanessa in Karate. I do not practise and I probably understand less than 20% of the art. I can only provide the logistics and any other support Vanessa requires to continue her interest in Karate. The exposure in international competitions grooms and trains her to improve on her Karate so as much as we can, as long as Vanessa express an interest, we would support her to compete.
10)What are your goals for Vanessa in Karate beyond 2010?
Please see above. I know Vanessa wants to be in the ASEAN Karate Team to participate in SEA Games badly so I think thats probably her target beyond 2010.
11) What do you think of the standards of Karate in Singapore?
I really dont know much to comment on the standard but I can see from attending international competitions that other countries have a bigger and more committed team as some are employed by their country to win medals in Karate. As such, they take winning and training much more seriously.
12) As a mother, would you allow your children to pursue a career in sports?
As a mother of young children, I would like to expose my children to many interests and allow them opportunities to explore, find and develop their interests and calling. As a mother, I would wish my children to grow up happy and successful. When they are pursuing a career which they are interested in, its much easier and happier to wake up doing the trade each day, success will come as a by product. If my children realise this calling in sports, I would also give them my blessings although — I would also ask them physically, how long would they think they can cope with the demands of training and competiting and I would also ask them to plan for the career path to see how they would then go on to coaching etc.
13) Why do you think that it is hard for Singaporeans to make a career in sports?
Do you think that the sports scene in Singapore is not mature enough to sustain high paying career in sports? I think its not easy cause our educational focus is more academic base and the high demands mean kids start at a young age attending enrichment classes in Chinese etc. If we do not have the audience or the fan base to appreciate the art/sports, we do not have the sponsors and thus, we will not have high paying careers in sports. Its probably more profit generating for medal winning sports man to open schools for young children than to pursue the sports itself. Parents will pay a lot to train their children but few parents and children have the time or commitment to pursue sports professionally in addition to the demands of school work and exams. As Singaporeans, our interests in sports is also much limited to swimming, bowling, football and badminton so its not easy for people with other interests to be groomed or recognised. At the end of the day, we are also very result oriented – the sports that bring in the goals will also be the area that gets the attention and the grooming BUT it does not take a short time to identify, groom or recognise the next award winning sportsman. So.. its a chicken and egg thing.
14) How do you find the standards of local sports in Singapore in general?
I am not really into Sports.
15) Lastly, do you have anything to say to Vanessa on VOXSPORTS?
Through Karate, you have learnt about discipline, focus and professionalism. I hope you will incoporate this into your daily life and enjoy practising Karate. Take each day, each competition one step at a time and mummy and daddy will support you in what it takes for you to achieve what you want.
Questions for Vanessa Tan (Daughter)
1) Hi Vanessa! How old are you now and which school are you from?
I am nine years old and I am from Bukit Timah Primary School. (Vanessa is born 1st Jan 2001 so she is attending P4, a year ahead of her peers)
2) Do you like Karate and why?
I like Karate because we can compete with each other and see who is better in Karate and its fun!
3) What are your hobbies besides Karate?
Golf and Swimming
4) Do you have a favorite Karate player in Singapore?
Ng Peiyi and Ng Peiru
5) Do you have anything to say to your mom on VOXSPORTS?
Thank you for your support and encouragement during tournaments and everything I do.